The Complexities Of Loving And Forgiving Abusers

Do No Harm, But Take No Shit

I have so many “good memories” with my abusers - times when they did things for me that appeared to be kind, altruistic, and emblematic of the fact that they may have cared.

The thing that many don’t get about abusive dynamics is that it is not that they always lack love or loving ness, but that these relationships will always be completely devoid of res…