SUNRISE SALUTATION #55: Finding The Way Home To A Security That Can't Be Overwritten By Any External Force
Early Rising Reflections And Downloads For A New Day With Solarah
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As we continue our journey through the cardinal water sign of Cancer, we are continually given the opportunity to rebirth ourselves. Cancer season gifts us with the open invitation to dive deep into the underlying stories that make up the invisible mechanics of our subconscious behaviours. It gives us a glimpse, or an entire inventory of these stories – depending on how deep we are willing to allow ourselves to dive.
It is important, in any season, to know ourselves and the energies we are dealing with collectively, in the interest of fostering personal balance and internal harmony. Every sign gifts us with medicine to make us stronger, but it often does so by having us explore and come to terms with the polarities of its wisdom.
Cancerian medicine is here to help us once again find home and security within ourselves. This medicine arrives to help us become so rooted in our own energy and heart’s truth, that we are no longer putting our souls and hearts at risk - living reactively from insecurities that arise from deep invisible woundedness, that continually have us uncosciously enacting self-rejecting behaviours.
Cancer shows us how and where we need to deeply re-mother ourselves, due to the nourishment that we were deprived of in our original maternal connections which brought us forth onto the Earth planes.
The true nature of mothering on this planet has been purposely and purposefully under attack – disabling mothers from showing up devinely for their children. It is anear impossible task for women to do for their offspring what they were never taught to first do for themselves. Women show up in motherhood already at a disadvantage and in deficit - deprived of the resources they need to thrive emotionally, let alone having what they need to supply for their children, without themselves falling into deeper deficiency.
This wounding of mothers was key in the upholding of the tenets that were designed to exploit and harm children for the furtherance of the false matrix. Wounded women become wounded mothers, who inadvertently – and sometimes spitefully – wound their children too. It’s an unavoidable and generational reality that occurred for us all – just in varying degrees.
The false matrix then took the most self-sacrificing mothers - the women who allows themselves to be bled dry by their wifely and motherhood resposibilities - and put them on a pedestal as the emblem for what good motherhood is.
It is never a “good” thing when one being myst sacrifice their life for the survival (not even the thriving) of another. While admirable it may be in some case, it is not the devine design for motherhood. We are all here devinely to thrive, not just scrape by or live in severe bouts of deprivation for shreds and moments of joy.
Cancer energy is that of the Devine Mother showing up to give us the nurturance we needed and never got. She comes to replenish and help us to “fill up our cups” again. She helps us to come to terms with the patterning that developed as a result of these generational cycles of depletion. She begins to help us find the courage to face the depths of our own heartbreak and need, in order to re-establish bonds with self that promote deep trust.
When we are secure in ourselves - when we are able to trust our own intuition and ability to keep ourselves safe - we are able to have relationships that are also rooted more substantially. Women are able to show up and be real mothers, and children are able to thrive off the guidance, nurturance, and love of one who is not always severely depleted.
Childhood wounding and attachment issues foster co-dependency, and a need to always search outside of self for what can only come from within. This quest to find external satisfaction is what leads us to harmful behaviours, that grow our obsession with attaching ourselves to others and things in order to garner a false sense of security…..ever searching for that motherly touch, affection, wisdom, assurance, and security that we need to get back home to find in ourselves.
Cancer transits and energy come to help us feel secure once more in our own homes – in our own skin.
Every sign gifts us with medicine to make us stronger, but it often does so by having us explore and come to terms with the polarities of its wisdom.
In the instance of Cancer, we must face all that roots in any of our co-dependent behaviours born of our attachment issues. This exploration can sometimes leave us feeling more naked and alone, than secure and nurtured. However - much like our original birthing process - we must return to the darkness of the womb and the void, in order to emerge once more into the light, with all of its comforts and rewards.
When we boldly take the hand of the Devine Mother, and allow for her to show us all those places hidden in our heart where we are still harbouring loss, grief, fear and disappointments, and unconsciously reacting from that space, we are able to find our way back to true stability within self.
We are able to put an end to the unconscious patterning that has been fueling our own self and relational destruction, and we can once again build material realities that are a reflection of our deep sense of security with in self….instead of chasing everything and everyone in order to feel falsely secure.
This energy and season can feel deeply ungrounding emotionally, as we learn to root ourselves back into the primordial wisdom and womb that will never leave us feeling uncertain and lost to ourselves again.
This is where we lean deeper into the wisdom of the Devine Mother and learn how to nurture and care for ourselves as only we are able to do. We learn to honour our own peace by advocating for our right to feel safe in our own bodies, safe in our own minds, safe in our own hearts….safe in our own homes.
So, whatever you need to come back into yourself this season, do not deny. If you need more rest, more time in nature, more self-care, deeper nutrition, a space in which you can cry, a listening ear, more hugs, more assurance, or chances to hide away from the world while you reconnect with these deeper parts of yourself….do it.
You may think you don’t have the ability to do so, but one thing I know about the Devine Mother is this: when we trust and allow ourselves to fall into Her embrace - so she can show us how to tend to our needs on all planes - we are always provided for. It may not be in the way in which we have become accustomed, but She has a way of letting us know that we are devinely protected and supported to do what it is we need to do to come back home in the fullness of spirit and truth.
The way of the Devine Mother is full of uncertainty and unpredictability, but that is because Her main focus is helping us to once again find that anchoring in self. It is from this place, that true security is born and the foundation becomes set for stability on all other planes too, including our material wealth.
Wishing you a nurturing day,
Solarah💛☀️
This message came through you in Divine Timing, I needed these precious reminders ⚘️❤️
You are so valued. I pray you have a beautiful Day ⚘️💐☀️
Such strength in your words, Solarah. How indeed can we show up as nurturing mothers when we have been sucked dry? ✨